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The thought flashed through my mind as I watched her walk Daddy seeks a special girl me. My internal monologue was racing as she walked in my direction. She looked directly into my eyes, smiled, waved, and walked directly over to my table.
I thought he was joking. And if it did, how the hell have I or the authorities never heard of it? Could there really be an elite sexual underworld going on in every city across the country where the highest bidder could sleep with Daddy seeks a special girl date the most attractive women? Typically in the form of a monthly cash allowance, travel, shopping or rent assistance. Typically, they offers companionship and often sexual intimacy. The context and paradigm of these relationships are as variable as the people who engage in them.
There were individuals looking for discreet sexual relationships, platonic companionship, partners willing to accommodate their hectic business and travel schedule, and everything in between. Seeing this diversity among the sugar dating community, the fact still remained. No matter how well you spin it the overwhelming majority of people on the platform were there for one reason.
And, despite the surprising abundance of sugar dating sites available, the overwhelming majority of individuals flocked to a single platform. As soon as I logged on, thousands of sugar babies popped up—and those were only the women who met my specific search criteria in my zip code.
New women were ing every hour as I would hit refresh and a new sugar baby was born and I found myself wondering…just how many men and women are engaged in this and more importantly, why? And looking at data from Seeking Arrangement itself, we discover that, of the 10, yes ten million active users inside of the United States, there are three sugar babies for every one sugar daddy.
Meaning that there are more than 6. After all, 6. According to the U. Censusthere are roughly million people in the United States between the ages of 18 and So now, we have an estimated 60, women between the ages of 18 and And of those women, more than 6, are on Seeking Arrangement.
My mind started spinning as I checked my message inbox. And staring back at me from my dimly lit monitor, were five, almost immediate positive responses. Yet here I was, with five different women trying to meet up with me. And then, something happened that perfectly illustrates just how profoundly sugar dating changes the dating dynamics for men. So, as a test I sent her a message on Seeking Arrangement without sharing my photos to see her response.
Needless to say, on Seeking Arrangement, women treat men differently. Responses are prompt and kind even if she has no idea what you look like or who you are. Within a few days, I had dozens of phone s, scheduled multiple dates, and had countless women asking me when I would be available to meet. Calling the shots and having their pick of sugar babies without any sense of scarcity or fear of rejection.
I was showered in compliments and praise so frequently and so fervently, that I began to feel like I was frequenting an online strip club—as if it was the job of these women to make men feel respected and desired.
There must be a catch? It was a small taste of what I imagine most beautiful women have felt on a daily basis since hitting puberty. As I browsed through hundreds of seemingly attractive women, I began to doubt the veracity of the profiles I was seeing. A high-quality, sophisticated woman would never use a site like this….
Many of them were college educated, some of them graduates from prestigious universities and, in several cases, Phds. I was curious, but still hesitant. To my naive and innocent mind, there was simply no chance in hell that the women with whom I was connecting were really them. For days I engaged in an internal debate about whether or not I should pursue this channel any further. But there was a deeper more potent emotion fueling my hesitancy. Of Daddy seeks a special girl, the women I desire sometimes go out to bars on the weekends, have a few drinks with girlfriends, and maybe the occasional t to take the edge off of a long day, but that is the extent of their debauchery.
They had reputations to protect, standards to maintain, and an already abundant pool of men begging to date them. I wanted to know the realities facing men today and the potential problem posed by the now transactional nature of dating, romance and intimacy. Looking around the bar, I noticed a brawny middle aged just out of prison looking man eyeing us a few times as he nursed the same bourbon neat, for nearly half an hour.
What the hell have I gotten myself into?
As the minutes passed by and the aforementioned man quietly left the bar, my queasiness was replaced by a growing sense of bewilderment. The girl sitting across from me was, despite her outward beauty, rather normal, in fact, quite interesting.
The night concluded with no fanfare, no exchanging of cash for Daddy seeks a special girl, and no mention of my purported net worth or financial capability. As I laid in bed that night, thinking back on the experience, my confusion only compounded. And surely, that date was an anomaly? I resolved to roll the dice a few times more, just to figure out what the hell was going on here. To my surprise and curiosity I found that merely half of the women with whom I went out had no des on my financial assets.
And, as long as I took them out and paid for a fun night out, the conversation never came up. And these women and I went our separate ways within an hour and I never heard from them again, yet the interactions only served to exacerbate my existing confusion. Yet here they were. Sitting across from me and casually naming a price they were willing to accept for sex.
Openly discussing the monetary value they placed on the most intimate part of their lives no different than if we were discussing her favorite Netflix show. I thought to myself. Those experiences aside, I was pleasantly surprised by the relative normalcy of the overall experience with many of the women I met. And watching my video training on becoming Daddy seeks a special girl stronger grounded man, doubling your confidence, reclaiming your personal power and working with a oriented mentor will greatly help too. You can watch it here. Even though I paid for the dates just like any normal dateI noticed that the women who never asked me for money seemed attracted to the allure of status, power and the lifestyle that financial success can bring.
Many of these women have been with broke boyfriend after broke boyfriend who never had the means to take her out and enjoy the simple luxuries that money can offer. I was playing the game with an upper advantage. I had the skills necessary to date attractive women without using a site like Seeking Arrangement and the platform served as little more than a conduit through which the two of us connected.
But even as I found myself on a second or third date with some of the women I met on the site, there was an inescapable elephant in the room gnawing my mind. How could I knowingly and willingly date a woman who was, by all reasonable expectations, likely engaged in other relationships that were tantamount to escorting?
How does the systematization of and unfettered access to sugar dating affect men, women, and the traditional dating paradigm? As I continued my descent deeper into the underbelly of this bizarre and baffling underworld I began to wonder… Will being a sugar baby one day become as normal as having an online dating profile? How will the proliferation of sugar dating and Seeking Arrangement affect your average man in the 21st century?
Especially men who have become stagnant and lost their masculine edge. Men who are not working on themselves, living adventurous lives, staying in shape, increasing their income and developing their social skills. I have strong reason to believe that for the men who are not growing personally and professionally it will be even harder, if not damn near impossible, for them to enter into relationships with attractive women from this day forward. After all, why would a woman date men who are barely getting by with little ambition when they can auction their time and sex off to men who can provide far more enticing experiences and get paid for it?
And for the men who do have the resources and financial cash flow necessary to sustain such a lifestyle? How will the one-dimensionality of their relationships affect their growth as a man? And the more I thought about it, the more I realized just how slippery the slope of sugar dating really is. But what really troubles me, is there has never been a time in history where so many women from lower, middle and even upper classes in society have so freely and casually chosen to adopt a lifestyle that is tantamount to prostitution.
To the outside observer, sugar dating, especially for women, seems like something of a fantasy.
They have a large pool of traditional male attention, emotional affection and boyfriends to choose from. The plight of the middle class—budgeting, saving, learning, investing, working hard to get ahead, spending most of your money on bills, rejecting mindless consumerism, embracing minimalism, overcoming struggle—these were all trivial matters that the sugar baby could avoid by auctioning herself to a sugar daddy. With the simple act of spreading her legs, the adversity to which her mother and grandmother were subjected was now easily escapable.
Were they thinking of how this choice could affect their current or future partner or children? Would they be able to stop once their needs were met? Would women engaged in this lifestyle wait even longer to get married and have children in order to fully capitalize on their youth and beauty? The more I thought about it, the more I began to wonder late at night…. Where does this dark and deep rabbit hole really go? Every time I refreshed my browser on Seeking Arrangement I saw new sugar babies who had decided to auction themselves off to sugar daddies to partake in a more glamorous and appealing lifestyle than making money by working hard and finding a good man to raise a family with.
The millennial environment we find ourselves incentivizes women to go all-in on the quick cash of new age prostitution fueled by materialism, consumerism and exotic lifestyles driven by an ego galvanizing social media generation. Why gamble and wait until old age to enjoy a better life and luxury lifestyle when she can sell her time and body to a sugar daddy and enjoy it now? Political liberation was earned through decades of hard earned struggle. And today, for a growing of women, financial liberation was only a few messages, dates, and panty drops away.
Young women, have been conditioned through social media and heavy marketing from billion dollar brands to seek expensive, consumerist, big-city luxury lifestyles and to seek them NOW. Daddy seeks a special girl sacrifice youth working 10 hour days for decades or at the very least, go through the journey with a partner who will, when you can simply spread your legs which she was going to do anyway with a modest boyfriend and have everything you want today.
In a generation raised on Fifty Shades of Grey which sold over million books—just think about that for a secondthe idea of a young and innocent woman relying on a rich older man was normalized and even fantasized. The more I leaned into this dark and twisted underworld, despite my relatively benign experiences, the more bitter a taste it left in my mouth. It made me wonder…. Is traditional dating, love, and romance dead? Has monogamy breathed its last breath with my social media infused generation? Although these questions might sound hyperbolic, the more deeply I dove into the underbelly of the sugar dating world, the more I began to believe they deserved an answer.
Millennial women are becoming increasingly comfortable monetizing their sexuality, both inside and outside of the sugar dating world. Open up Instagram right now and tell me how many photos you can find of women flaunting their Daddy seeks a special girl to greater extremes to increase likes, followers and earn sponsorship deals. Pictured: popular instagram models.
Not known sugar babies. Sugar dating, it seems, is the merging of two otherwise distinct and separate worlds. It has brought together the transactional aspect Daddy seeks a special girl prostitution and combined it with the romantic aspects of traditional dating. And the more I opened my eyes and paid close attention to the modern hookup culture and dating scene around me, the more I saw my generation paving the way for widespread, normalized prostitution fueled by materialism and a need for instant gratification.
Women want money to fuel a grander lifestyle and with the inception of online sugar dating, everyone gets to live out their fantasies in an unregulated sugar bowl of lavish outings and raw intimate encounters. Not to say I believe this to be true or want it to be, simply that the rapid rise of sugar dating and the millions of women voluntarily engaging in it raise many compelling points that might suggest this.
Look at it this way: In impoverished third world countries, women are often forced to resort to prostitution to survive. They simply have very few if no other alternatives. Yet, despite the necessity of their actions and the atrocious fact that many women today are still sold into sexual slavery they still face a lifetime of shame, judgement, and ostracization from society. Yet, in the richest, safest, and most developed countries in the world, a bevy of women—women with a plethora of options for employment, higher education and self-sufficiency—have chosen to willingly volunteer their bodies to older men for money.
And for what? A few hundred dollars, a Gucci bag and trip to Bali? With Seeking Arrangement, women today can effectively sell themselves and their bodies without the negative social repercussions carried by traditional prostitution, which historically prevented women from engaging in it. Sugar babies are not standing in a sketchy alley at 2am surrounded by drug dealers and petty criminals risking their safety.
These women are afforded exactly what they want—a seemingly endless supply of cash, luxury vacations, and a high rolling lifestyle—in exchange for a life of quasi-prostitution. And this new paradigm has served to progressively but covertly blur the lines between traditional relationships and prostitution by mimicking elements of real romance.
Over the past 30 some years, men and women have been systematically but unintentionally brainwashed into what intimacy and romance is. Men, were exposed to pornography at the age of ten and billion dollar corporations marketed sexy women in every magazine, movie and shopping mall corner. They were conditioned inversely to expect the women they date to be a sex-hungry freak willing to do anything and everything in her power to pleasure him on command.
As age and experience started to set in, we realized that the Disney romantic fairy tale was unlikely to happen. In response to the dissolution of their childhood and teenage fantasies it seems as if, quite suddenly, millions of women had decided to become undercover online prostitutes disguised as sugar babies.Daddy seeks a special girl
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